Communication Breakdown in Love
Many relationships start to break down when the communication is lost. Being able to talk to your partner about your feelings, your fears and your upsets is one of the most important parts of a relationship. Communication is what keeps a relationship strong.
Loving someone and feeling loved is one of the most important things in life. We all want to have a strong and secure relationship and our partner is often the most important person, someone we cherish and someone we need. However, when we start to lose communication, the cracks appear and we can easily drift apart. Communication not only is imperative in relationships, but it also helps us to voice our concerns, to say how we feel – without feeling we are being judged. We value our partners opinion, but we also need their support in sometimes just listening.
Addressing the Situation...
Most relationships go through tricky periods as life throws curveballs and unexpected challenges. We sense when things are not right and either address it or not. If we do not address it, then the problems will often keep arising until we face it. Can you relate to any of the following?
1. I do not feel comfortable talking openly with my partner about my feelings.
2. Every time I try and talk, my partner either ignores me or doesn’t listen.
3. I worry about how my partner will react if I say something.
4. We just don’t talk anymore, maybe we’re stuck in a rut.
5. My partner says I’m unapproachable.
Sadly, many relationships that do not last have resulted in both partners blaming the other for breakdown in communication. Relationships should instead be working together as a whole, to rebalance the equilibrium, communicate openly and reignite the love. One person may blame the other for being selfish, and the other person may be told they are being needy. Whatever the reason, the real issue is that somewhere along the line, you stopped communicating.
Common Relationship Issues
One of the most common issues in a relationship is that people get stuck in a tedious coexistence. Life becomes a never-ending pattern and there is no real interest in doing something exciting together, whether it’s going out for dinner or booking a holiday for some time alone. We can get stuck in our comfort zones, no real effort for romance and we long for the early days when love was exciting! One thing many of us do is over-analyse, whether it’s who has done the most household chores or who caused the last argument. No relationship will ever be completely smooth-sailing and there are always going to be ups and downs. But, if you can communicate easily through those tricky periods, then they will be over with in no time.
Some of us may reminisce over the early days…
Commit Your Time
If you want your relationship to be strong and to last a long time, then you must commit and have special time together. Put away your computer and your mobile phone, book a babysitter and go out on a date night together. Some of us may reminisce over those early days and there’s no reason why we can’t re-create it to put a spark back in our relationship. The little things like laughing together, sharing funny stories, giving random hugs and kisses shows each other there is still love. This will also help you to relax and to communicate more, being able to talk openly about any fears or concerns and building a stronger foundation. Avoid being confrontational and choose your words carefully when you need to talk about something important to your partner. If you can trust each other 100%, then you will be able to communicate easily. Being defensive or argumentative is only ever going to create problems.
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