Self-Care Routines: A Relationship You Deserve

 

 

 

 

Hi, I am Allaina I'm Reader #7664 and Welcome to my “Self-care Routine Series” blog, where I share with you routines and protocols to assist you in taking an active role to preserve or improve your own Health, Wellbeing and Happiness.”

Part of my “Selfcare Routine Series” covers “Mental and Emotional Wellness” which is a common focus and topic in today’s world as most of us experience pressure and stress at some level in our everyday life.

My Topic of today’s Blog is about being aware of the type of “Relationship You Deserve” which may be a little different to the type of relationship that you currently have at this time or have compensated in having.

This doesn’t mean that all of a sudden you need to decide to finish the one you’re in or expect your partner to make changes to fit in with what I’m sharing, but instead its about you becoming aware of your specific needs that you truly want to have met in any relationship and the ones that you deserve to have.

Sometimes we can become involved in a relationship with someone for the wrong reasons, it may have been because we had been lonely and out of a relationship for some time, so when someone comes along we can get caught up with the concept of romance, the excitement of it all and someone filling that gap.

This may mean that we may overlook the red flags or stop seeing other potential partners even just to date because this one person just turned up, and then we may find ourselves giving too much of ourselves to their needs and wants and forgetting to look after ourself or consider our own.

It’s important to NOTE here that NO-ONE can fill your needs and wants in any relationship and that only you can do this for yourself, you cannot change or expect someone to do this for you, the only person that can change is you which means that you may need to have an good honest look at what you’re doing and ask yourself why you are, ask yourself is this relationship one that sustains you on all levels and is it truly giving you the “Relationship You Deserve”? 

But also are you Loving Yourself enough to respect yourself by allowing someone to become involved with you that is going to care for you in the right way, and not the other way around.

So, What Does This Look Like?

Following are some ways a partner may show you that you have “A Relationship You Deserve”.

• Someone who makes your life easier, who steps up to take care of you too.
• They hear you and show this in their behavior, not just in their words but in their actions. They’re honest, loyal, and open to communication and compromise.
• They take the initiative and are motivated, they make plans, give you surprises, or does nice things without being asked, they always have your back and stand by you.
• They respect you in all ways, even if they don’t agree with your views or behavior, things are discussed and the outcome is always a “Win-Win.”
• They take responsibility in the relationship, sharing the load, someone invested in loving you without expectations, showing up consistently, even when it’s hard. 

If you would like further information around what I have shared with you today on the “Relationship You Deserve” then contact me for an in-depth psychic or a tarot reading where I can look at your current situation  and make some suggestions on ways that you can love yourself better and improve your self-love which will increase better relationships to show up for you in your life.

I look forward to connecting with you in a psychic telephone reading or in a general tarot card reading for you, until then.

Blessed Be,

Allaina #7664